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October 22, 2007
Hurry Up And Wait
My day started off well enough. I took Jesse to school for her dad. Once Ashley was gone, I wrapped our recently purchased Christmas presents for her.
I had just picked up one of Andrew’s gifts to wrap when the phone rang. It was my mom letting me know that the Marine recruiter had called Andrew and informed him that he would leave for Louisville at 3 PM. TODAY.
Tomorrow he will travel by plane for South Carolina. From there, he will travel by bus to Parris Island.
Andrew joined the Marines back in early August, I believe. He was actually supposed to leave a month ago, but then they kept him here because something with his job wasn’t ready. He signed on to be an MP and he doesn’t want anything less. They’re really pushing for infantry people, but Andrew stuck to his guns and held out for the MP (Military Police) position.
For the next three months he will be in basic training. He will then attend schooling for another three months. I am upset they notified him at the last minute that he was leaving; however he was scheduled to leave next week as it was.
I know his eyes won’t have this same innocence when he returns:
It was raining when he left:
He will not be here for Halloween, Thanksgiving, or Christmas. I have cried off and on all night. I feel good knowing he should be safe for the next six months though because they won’t send him oversees without schooling him first.
Before he left, my aunt called and told me that Sydnee had both her catheter and NG Tube removed. I hope they let her eat something.
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When Kevin brought me the mail this afternoon, I was crying. He handed me a card to open.
It was from my friend, Deanna. She gave us tickets to Movie Tavern and she had also included a pair of Pug earrings!
In the mist of all the bad, Deanna sent me something that made me feel good. It’s nice to know people are thinking of you and care what happens to you. Thank you so much Deanna! You are such a generous person.
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Mom had to visit UK this evening for platelets. Her phone call was another opportunity for the tears to flow. I never heard anything else, so I assume she is okay. She has a doctor’s appointment tomorrow, so I will try to let you know any details I find out.
I don’t think I can handle much more emotionally and I don’t want to find out. I rarely blog about things that upset me and I’m sorry if this was a downer, but that was my day.
Posted by tami at October 22, 2007 11:14 PM
Comments
Just letting you know that I'm thinking about you...
Posted by: Lori-Lyn at October 22, 2007 11:19 PM
I think sometimes it's good to write about the things that are bothering us..I believe it provides a sort of therapy. I can't imagine what you must be going through dealing with everything that's come your way lately. I've had your family on my mind so much lately and have been praying for you all. I hope it helps a little to know that there are lots of people out there that care very much about you and your family.
Posted by: Stacey at October 23, 2007 12:06 AM
Well, shoot...no wonder you were crying. Who wouldn't? The rainy day probably didn't help. You and your family are in my thoughts often and in my prayers as much!
Posted by: gw at October 23, 2007 1:16 AM
I wanted you to know that I am praying for you.
Posted by: ellice at October 23, 2007 5:55 AM
I'm so sorry you are going through this difficult time. It is so hard when your family experiences its first physical split. We have to let them grow up though :) We'll be praying for your son's safety.
Posted by: Tammy at October 23, 2007 9:26 AM
What a day!! Hugs.
Posted by: Miss L at October 23, 2007 11:56 AM
Andy might not be here in the flesh, but he is in our hearts, prayers and thoughts. Ray & I thought about that innocent look also!
My heart broke for Syndee! She let me know quick that Uncle Ray hadn't been there yet to see her.
Harold's Mom, Rita, told me the doctor found the NG tube was hooked up wrong!!! Syndee is trying very hard to be a brave girl!
This is a good source of venting....let it fly!
Posted by: The Aunt at October 23, 2007 1:00 PM
I am just glad they made it in one piece! You know i'm here for whatever you need. Even though we did not work together for long, I have found a true friend in you! Andrew will be o.k. I am so proud of him for joining the service.
Posted by: deanna at October 23, 2007 2:33 PM
Just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you. I will keep Andrew in my thoughts and prayers. It seems just like yesterday that he was just a little boy running around your mom and dad's. I too am very proud of Andrew. He turned out to be a wonderful and handsome young man, but then how could he not....look at his parents & grandparents they have set an excellent example. Love ya'll.
Posted by: chastity at October 23, 2007 6:49 PM